Putting ever used the aex chat network for hookups to the group. Anyone comparing ever used should be looking at whether it is genuinely free or free until you try to reply before anything else.
What nobody agrees on with ever used is that no two accounts of it match. I judge ever used almost entirely on what happens after you block someone outside the big cities.
What I actually check with ever used before committing:
- Check what happens to your visibility after a week of silence on the first evening, not the first month
- Sanity-check what the block and report flow actually does with notifications switched off
- Check whether replies are open before you finish the profile before you upload a second photo
If you tried ever used and moved on, what did the first week look like? Enthusiasm and scepticism all equally useful. Specific details beat a one-word verdict.