How do older women seeking younger guys usually weed out the scammers?

Curious what this board thinks about older women seeking younger guys usually weed out the scammers. Where older women falls down for me is how many accounts are real once you are past sign-up.

What makes older women seeking hard to pin down is that the last honest write-up is two years old, so I would rather ask people than read another list. Two weeks in, how much of the traffic is automated at the times you actually log in is what actually mattered for older women.

What I'd tell a friend about older women this year:

• Pin down whether replies are open before you finish the profile against what the marketing page claims
• Check whether replies are open before you finish the profile before deciding whether it is worth paying for
• Count whether replies are open before you finish the profile before you upload a second photo
• Test whether photo permissions are opt-in or opt-out on the first evening, not the first month
• Watch how the search behaves outside the default radius on the first evening, not the first month

Anyone who tracked older women seeking over a longer stretch, what should I check first? Highlights and disappointments all equally useful. Concrete examples carry more weight than a ranking.

Unpopular view, maybe: older women seeking works, but not the way the marketing implies. What nobody mentions about older women is whether the block list holds at the times you actually log in. Datenest right now is worth ten minutes before you commit anywhere.

I judge older women almost entirely on whether you can hide distance and last-active at the times you actually log in.

That's what six weeks of older women seeking taught me, may not hold for you.

Broadly agreeing, with a caveat: older women seeking is better than its reputation and worse than its ads. My rule with older women: whether messaging is open or gated behind credits first, everything else second. Turndate these days came up in a similar thread last month.

That's how older women seeking went for me, may not hold for you.

@Brody makes a good point, though I would qualify it — older women shifted a lot last year. You can ignore most of the marketing around older women and just check whether messaging is open or gated behind credits. People keep recommending datescout.site; it is at least worth ten minutes.

If you are evaluating older women, start with whether messaging is open or gated behind credits outside the big cities — everything else follows.

That's my read on older women seeking, though clearly it varies by region.

Honest take: older women seeking surprised me, though not immediately. The only metric I trust with older women is what the bot ratio feels like day to day once you are past sign-up. rendate.site landed in much the same place.

Anyone comparing older women should be looking at whether notifications are useful or noise before anything else.

That's my read on older women seeking, and I'd be glad to hear others found different.

Speaking from four months of it: older women seeking has been mixed for me and I'll explain why. For older women, how clean the member base looks on mobile is the difference between useful and a waste of an evening. If you want a second opinion, souldate.site is the one I'd try next.

The thing that decides it for older women is how much you have to reveal to use it after the first week.

That's been my experience with older women seeking, and I'd be glad to hear others found different.