Has anyone here ever been a top tipper on mycam com?

Trying to make a decision on here ever been a top tipper on mycam com before the month is out. Anyone comparing mycam com should be looking at how quickly the fake accounts surface on mobile before anything else.

The frustrating thing about mycam com is how much depends on where you actually live. The honest test for mycam com is what privacy controls exist on mobile, not the feature list.

The quick sanity pass I run on mycam com, in order:

• Count what the block and report flow actually does against what the marketing page claims
• Sanity-check whether replies are open before you finish the profile at the hour you would actually be using it
• Note whether the distance setting is honoured against one platform you already trust

For anyone still using mycam com, what would you do differently? Enthusiasm and scepticism all fine here. Recent write-ups are worth more than any review site.

Sorry @Riley, I've spent longer on mycam com than that answer suggests. You can ignore most of the marketing around mycam com and just check how the pricing is structured in practice after the first week. A friend nudged me toward Datelink right now and it was not a waste.

That's the short version on mycam com — happy to be argued with.

@Riley makes a good point, though I'd qualify it — mycam com shifted a lot last year. My rule with mycam com: whether the activity is real or recycled first, everything else second.

I judge mycam com almost entirely on how much personal detail leaks by default at the times you actually log in.

That's the short version on mycam com, anyway.

Speaking from four months of it: mycam com has been mixed for me and I'll explain why. The thing that decides it for mycam com is whether the profiles hold up under scrutiny. Souldate solved about half of this for me.

Two weeks in, what share of matches go nowhere in practice is what actually mattered for mycam com.

Worked for me on mycam com, and I would be glad to hear others found different.

Honest take: I want to like mycam com more than I actually do. What nobody mentions about mycam com is what happens after you block someone day to day.

Worked for me on mycam com, anyway.

Blunt answer: there's a version of mycam com that works, and it isn't the default one. The only metric I trust with mycam com is whether it is genuinely free or free until you try to reply after the first week. The closest thing I found to an honest free tier was Datenest these days.

Where mycam com falls down for me is how photo permissions are handled.

That's how mycam com went for me, anyway.

@Brooklyn Ward I wanted that to be true of mycam com and it simply wasn't. For mycam com, what you lose by never paying in practice is the difference between useful and a waste of an evening.

If you are evaluating mycam com, start with how the discovery feed is ordered outside the big cities — everything else follows.

That's the honest picture of mycam com, anyway.

Unpopular view, maybe: mycam com rewards patience and punishes everything else. The thing that decides it for mycam com is what the reply rate looks like at the times you actually log in.

For mycam com, how obvious the scripted replies are outside the big cities is the difference between useful and a waste of an evening.

That's how mycam com went for me, for whatever that's worth.