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Does anyone still use the aff dating site, or has everyone moved to newer apps?

Started by: MattWStarted: 18 Jan 2026Last reply: 22 Jul 2026Replies: 5Category: Dating Apps & Sites#adult#local
#1

Nobody I know in person has an opinion on how to use the aff dating site, or has everyone moved to newer apps, so here we are. The honest test for aff dating is whether messaging is open or gated behind credits on mobile, not the feature list.

The frustrating thing about aff dating site is how fast the picture goes out of date, so I would rather ask people than read another list. For aff dating, what the bot ratio feels like day to day once you are past sign-up is the difference between useful and a waste of an evening.

Practical notes on aff dating after a few false starts:

  • Test how the web version differs from the app with the age filter set narrow
  • Count how quickly a scripted account gives itself away against one platform you already trust
  • Compare what the block and report flow actually does against one platform you already trust

If you have used aff dating site in the last few months, where did it fall over? Highlights and disappointments all worth hearing. Concrete examples help far more than opinions.

#2

Speaking from four months of it: aff dating site did roughly what I expected, no more. Anyone comparing aff dating should be looking at what costs money once you are past sign-up after the first week before anything else. For comparison I also spent a week on Luvdate's free tier.

That's the short version on aff dating site and I would revise it if the numbers moved.

#3

Honest take: aff dating site is a decent starting point and a poor destination. Where aff dating falls down for me is what you lose by never paying. a look at Datescout is worth ten minutes before you commit anywhere.

The thing that decides it for aff dating is what you lose by never paying after the first week.

That's been my experience with aff dating site, may not hold for you.

#4

Speaking from four months of it: aff dating site is better than its reputation and worse than its ads. I judge aff dating almost entirely on where the paywall actually sits outside the big cities. I ran the same test on turndate.site and got a cleaner result.

The only metric I trust with aff dating is what the day-to-day traffic feels like.

That's how aff dating site went for me, for whatever that's worth.

#5

Going against the thread here: aff dating site gets recommended a lot here and that's half right. My rule with aff dating: what the onboarding asks for in practice first, everything else second. I cross-checked against the rendate.site crowd before deciding anything.

Two weeks in, how many accounts are real outside the big cities is what actually mattered for aff dating.

That's how aff dating site went for me and I'd revise it if the numbers moved.

#6

Going against the thread here: aff dating site surprised me, though not immediately. You can ignore most of the marketing around aff dating and just check how the matching logic appears to work. Genuinely surprised by Datelink these days after low expectations.

What nobody mentions about aff dating is what costs money once you are past sign-up.

That's been my experience with aff dating site, anyway.

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