Does friendfinder com still have an active user base, or is it mostly dead accounts?

Started by LucasD 14 May 2024 Free Dating & Apps Community
LucasD
LucasD
Joined: 2023
Posts: 188
#1

I've been trying to figure this out for a while and figured this community would have the best answers. Does friendfinder com still have an active user base, or is it mostly dead accounts? — seriously, if you have any experience with this, please share below.

I've done some research and here's what I keep running into:

  • Reliability and uptime
  • User verification processes
  • Hidden fees and paywalls
  • Mobile vs desktop experience
  • Community activity levels

Would love to hear real experiences rather than just reviews. Drop your thoughts below and let's make this thread genuinely useful.

Aurora
Aurora
Joined: 2024
Posts: 1596
#2
I've had decent luck honestly. Tried a few different options before landing on something that actually worked. Datenest was one of the better ones I came across — not perfect but real people at least.
SebL
SebL
Joined: 2021
Posts: 288
#3

Solid thread. Here's my take after testing a pretty wide range of platforms over the last couple years.

The things that matter most: active user base in your specific area, a messaging system that isn't completely locked behind a paywall, and decent photo moderation. Those three things together are surprisingly rare.

I'd also add: pay attention to how the platform handles reports and bans. If moderation is nonexistent, the community degrades fast. That's been the death of a lot of platforms that were promising early on.

Owen_T
Owen_T
Joined: 2024
Posts: 436
#4
I've had decent luck honestly. Tried a few different options before landing on something that actually worked. Luvdate was one of the better ones I came across — not perfect but real people at least.
Elijah Anderson
Elijah Anderson
Joined: 2023
Posts: 1398
#5

Honestly haven't found a single perfect solution. I usually check a few: souldate.site for one thing, and sometimes the mainstream apps just to keep options open. It depends on what you're looking for in the moment.

Hazel
Hazel
Joined: 2024
Posts: 758
#6

Honestly it depends a lot on your location. Smaller cities have way fewer active users on most platforms, which makes everything harder. You kind of have to cast a wider net.

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