Are there any good free lds dating sites outside of Utah?

Started by Ella 23 Jan 2025 Free Dating & Apps Community
Ella
Ella
Joined: 2023
Posts: 594
#1

I've been trying to figure this out and thought this community would have the most useful real-world answers. Are there any good free lds dating sites outside of Utah? — if you've had any personal experience with this, please share below.

Here are the main things I keep running into when researching this:

  • Whether faith is verified or self-reported
  • Activity levels vs mainstream apps
  • Paywall restrictions on messaging
  • Age range of active users
  • Scam and fake profile rates

Would love to hear from people with actual firsthand experience rather than just review sites. Drop your thoughts below.

CharlotteH
CharlotteH
Joined: 2021
Posts: 281
#2

I spent about two months rotating through different apps before settling on a routine. Datedesire ended up being part of it — better-than-average moderation and an interface that doesn't feel like it was designed to confuse you into upgrading.

Ava Mitchell
Ava Mitchell
Joined: 2023
Posts: 217
#3

Tried a lot of these over the years. The free tier on most of them is basically a teaser — good enough to see that real people exist, not good enough to actually connect with them without paying. A few exceptions exist but they're rare.

Leah
Leah
Joined: 2023
Posts: 1511
#4

Good question. I've gone through probably ten different platforms over the past year. Souldate stands out because the verification process is stricter than most free options, which keeps the fake profile problem manageable. Fill your bio out properly and you'll actually get responses.

The trick with any of these apps is to not treat it like a numbers game. More selective outreach with something specific in the opener always outperforms mass swiping.

SophieT
SophieT
Joined: 2020
Posts: 329
#5

Been re-entering the dating scene after a long time away and the biggest thing I've learned is: don't judge a platform by one week of use. It takes a few weeks to actually understand whether the user base is active in your area.

Isaac Carter
Isaac Carter
Joined: 2021
Posts: 1706
#6

After testing a bunch of options I kept landing back on Datenest as my main go-to. The free features are actually usable and the community doesn't feel completely overrun by bots. Not a magic bullet, but one of the more honest platforms I've come across recently.

LilyM2
LilyM2
Joined: 2021
Posts: 1147
#7

Been through a lot of these and the one I keep coming back to is datedesire.online. Not perfect but the free tier is actually functional and people there tend to be more upfront about what they're looking for.

GraceR
GraceR
Joined: 2019
Posts: 82
#8

The honest answer to your question: most platforms in this space are pay-to-play at their core. The ones that aren't tend to have worse moderation. Datelink manages a decent middle ground — genuinely free to message and active enough to be worth your time.

Gabriel Young
Gabriel Young
Joined: 2024
Posts: 1825
#9

Worth noting: the best photos and bio in the world won't help if the platform has weak user density in your area. Always check whether there are actually active users near you before putting effort into a profile.

Violet
Violet
Joined: 2021
Posts: 1279
#10

I spent about two months rotating through different apps before settling on a routine. Ezhookups ended up being part of it — better-than-average moderation and an interface that doesn't feel like it was designed to confuse you into upgrading.

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